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Patience and Your Choices (Qa'ida fi al-Sabr) summary

Ibn Taymiyyah

Based on Qa'ida fi al-Sabr (A Principle on Patience) and Risala fi Qawlihi Ta'ala: Wa-sta'inu bi al-Sabri wa al-Salah (A Treatise on 'Seek Help Through Patience and Prayer')

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Ibn Taymiyyah on patience: its three kinds, why harm from people is the hardest to bear, twenty reasons to pardon rather than take revenge, and seeking help through patience and prayer.

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Key ideas in Patience and Your Choices

1. Look Past the Hand

Look at the One who allowed the harm to reach you, not only at the hand that caused it, and your heart will find rest.

2. Forgive, and Be Forgiven

The reward is of the same kind as the deed: whoever pardons people, Allah pardons him.

3. Ruling Over Yourself

Whoever is patient has Allah as his helper; whoever takes revenge is left to himself.

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Every Affair Is Good

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Welcome. This is Patience and Your Choices, drawn from two short treatises by the great scholar of Damascus, Ibn Taymiyyah.

He begins with a remarkable claim. Allah, he says, has made every situation of the believer good for him. Whatever happens to him, pleasant or painful, he is always in a blessing from his Lord.

Every decree, he says, becomes a kind of trade in which the believer profits. A road by which he reaches Allah.

And he quotes the Prophet ﷺ. How wonderful is the affair of the believer. All of it is good for him. If something pleasing happens, he is grateful, and that is good for him. If something harmful happens, he is patient, and that is good for him.

One of the early Muslims said, faith is two halves. Half patience, and half gratitude. And Allah speaks of signs for everyone who is very patient, and very grateful.

So in this book, Ibn Taymiyyah focuses on patience. What it is. Its kinds. And, above all, how to find it when people hurt us.

Because patience, in the end, is not something that happens to us. It is a choice.

What is Patience and Your Choices about?

Ibn Taymiyyah on patience: its three kinds, why harm from people is the hardest to bear, twenty reasons to pardon rather than take revenge, and seeking help through patience and prayer. This summary draws on Qa'ida fi al-Sabr (A Principle on Patience) and Risala fi Qawlihi Ta'ala: Wa-sta'inu bi al-Sabri wa al-Salah (A Treatise on 'Seek Help Through Patience and Prayer') by Ibn Taymiyyah.

Who should read Patience and Your Choices?

About the author: Ibn Taymiyyah

Ibn Taymiyyah (1263-1328 CE) was a Damascene scholar and reformer, renowned for his works on creed, jurisprudence and the purification of the soul.

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What are the main ideas of Patience and Your Choices?

The key ideas are: Look Past the Hand; Forgive, and Be Forgiven; Ruling Over Yourself. Look at the One who allowed the harm to reach you, not only at the hand that caused it, and your heart will find rest.

Who wrote Patience and Your Choices?

The summary is based on Qa'ida fi al-Sabr (A Principle on Patience) and Risala fi Qawlihi Ta'ala: Wa-sta'inu bi al-Sabri wa al-Salah (A Treatise on 'Seek Help Through Patience and Prayer'), by Ibn Taymiyyah.

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The Islam Central summary has 13 chapters and about 35 min of audio, with the full text to read along in the app.

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